My Husband Wants A Threesome

There are so many exciting things that you can to in bed, but my husband is totally fixated on having a threesome. When I worked for London escorts, I knew that a few of the girls that I worked with at London escorts, had threesomes because of their boyfriends wanted to have them. Sure, the fact of having sex with more than one partner sounds great when you think about it, but should you be personally involved with at least one of the partners? I know that there can be a lot of emotional fallout from a threesome encounter.

Before I met my husband, I was really into swinging. I used to go swinging with a few of the girls who also worked for London escorts. On occasion, we did end up having threesomes with the some of the guys that we met. Was it good? Yes, I loved it and it became one of the main reason I went to swingers parties. The other girls from London escorts enjoyed it as well, and we even used to pick up guys at treat them to a threesome.

Imagine standing in a bar and being picked up by two girls from a London escorts service, and being taken for a wild threesome the next minute. Would that turn you on? Well, I don’t think that we ever met a guy who did not enjoy having a threesome with two London escorts. But, like I have said to my husband, there was no emotional connection there at all. He really needs to think about how he would feel seeing me having sex with another man. Would he really enjoy that?

One thing is for sure, if I invited one of my former London escorts colleagues to have sex with us, I would not feel too great about it. I think that I would get jealous seeing another girl give me husband a blow job, or even riding him. If he fucked her, and it turned out that she liked, I don’t think that I would be able to handle it. My husband says that I worry too much, but I know that you can take on more than you can handle.

It is all my fault, as I told him that I used to have brief lesbian encounters with two other girls who also worked for London escorts. I showed him a video we had made of having sex with each other dressed in bondage gear, and turned him on like mad. One thing led to another, and I told him that I used to swing and stuff like that. He seemed to get seriously excited about all of this, and now he want to have a threesome to see if i would like it as well. He may enjoy the threesome, but I am not sure that he could handle a potential emotional storm.

The Honeymoon: First Night Of Sex

It is normal for couples to become nervous regarding their wedding night sex. However, proper management of the situation may prove the difference between creating a night of memories to cherish, or a bad sexual experience laden with regrets. One thing that couples need to understand is that their partner may not be familiar with them or sex in general, and therefore should try and make them have the best first-sex experience with them; first sex impressions matters a lot, especially for subsequent sexual encounters. As most experts say, the first post-wedding night is the most significant point in life for the couple. If someone mishandles things on this night, he or she may miss an important opportunity to be close to their lifetime partner; sex is the ultimate bond that couples use to cement their vows of becoming one, after a wedding.

Before the newlyweds engage in sexual activity, it’s important to ensure that the ambiance is perfect. This could involve having a clean hotel or house, well decorated to match the mood of the day for a new couple. It should express a typical image of what love is. Let all that the couple may require be available for their use and comfort. Ambiance has a great role to play in helping the newlyweds relax while in the company of one another.

To have a memorable first-night sexual experience, the Bridegroom needs to connect emotionally with the Bride. As such, the man should do what he can to help his partner become relaxed. He should express his feelings about the things he likes in his new bride; let the man express the strengths he sees in his wife. Let the man make her feel that she’s beautiful. He, however, should avoid the use of sexual expressions, and instead choose to use non-sensitive or non-sexual praises focused on his wife’s neck, lips, eyes, teeth, and hair. The man needs to drop a hint of how he becomes aroused because of her presence. All first approaches need not be performed by a man; the bride should have her say in this as well. Men can be just a nervous as women on the first night.

Patience and a slow mantra during sex are important. The couple may be hungry for sex from their new partner; however, for both of them to enjoy the sexual experience, it’s important to practice patience and avoid rushing into bed once they get into the room. Prior to their wedding, the man needs to do a background check to understand if his to-be wife is a virgin. If so, then it’s important to counsel her and make her understand that she might feel some slight pain accompanied with a few drops of blood, but it’s normal and won’t last for long. Due to the couple’s inadequate knowledge about each other, it’s important for the man not to be vigorous during sexual intercourse. He should focus on helping his wife get most excitement out of their sexual activity. He should also be keen to read the wife’s non-vocal cues indicating that she needs the sex mantra increased/decreased.

Enjoyable first wedding-night sex requires that the couples stay active prior to their wedding. This will make them fit and flexible during sexual intercourse. There’s a need for the woman to engage her pelvic and vaginal muscles. For fear of experiencing pain at the first entry point, she can hold the man by his shoulders to limit his entry pace. Let the couple view this night as an opportunity to become physically connected to one another, rather than exploitation from their partner.

Proper mental preparation is also important in having a perfect sexual experience. The couple can connect mentally by showering together. This can also help them get the opportunity to see how each of them is uniquely and perfectly molded to their satisfaction. This may be hard for them depending on their previous sexual experience, but it’s worth it for the first-night sexual bonding.

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